Comments on: It is over and I am so darn happy! (August)

By: Deborah

Deborah — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:28:50 +0000

Ally, you’re a breath of fresh air! My hubs has been out of a job for over a year. We are approaching two years much too quickly for my liking. And scary perfectly describes it.
You may recall from an earlier comment I left (me, the once missionary teacher) lived on faith for 8 years. Why am I doubting God now? Then I didn’t know how much money I had to live on until the end of each month. That’s when I would find out what the lovely people supporting me had sent me. Why, oh why, was it easier to trust God then?
Yes, just last week I questioned whether God cared for me. Alone in Australia with a husband out of work, and no one hiring an American still processing her permanent visa. My family and friends are in America…Michigan and Florida. Hubs and I will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary in March. We have yet to find a home church and me…I am praying for a friend. It is highly important to have a girl friend to talk girl-stuff with…at least I think so.
I know God cares for me. I know He is faithful. I know I can trust Him. Why am I not living in what I know. I’m shaking in my boots. My faith is wavering like a leaf in the wind. I’m so focused on my circumstances and how they are not at all like my girlhood dreams of what marriage would be like…or anything like I dreamed the romantic adventure of moving to Australia with a handsome Aussie bloke would be.
Yes, my surroundings have changed…and I am no longer single (a dramatic, though altogether welcome change)…and everyone here tells me I am the one speaking strangely. All these changes, yet the one thing that matters most has not changed. God. Though I falter in my faith. He does not stumble in His faithfulness and loving kindness. His mercies are new every morning. I must renew my mind with these truths daily…for we have an adversary who desires to devour us…and I feel like I’ve been his chew toy for too long. Do you know the song “The Voice of Truth” by Casting Crowns? That always gets me back on track.
Thank you for being open about your struggle. You have encouraged me!
For His Name’s Sake,
Deborah @ Comfort Joy Designs
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By: Melissa from Pittsburgh

Melissa from Pittsburgh — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 20:58:21 +0000

In the midst of such turmoil you remain smiling and grateful! You are an amazing woman Fussy. I need to go to the school of Fussy.
Love ya girl and way to hang in there.
CONGRATULATIONS on coming full circle and loving him most of all.

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:31:23 +0000

Wow. I’m glad everything is turning out for the better and very encouraging. My hubs has been bouncing around temp jobs and our daycare costs are out of control, we are losing/giving up our condo so we can move out of this ridiculously expensive area. I’ve been working full-time, running an online baby boutique and blogging and I still can’t make ends meat every month.
I wish you the best and hope Blissdom 09 is successful. I was hoping I could make it this year, but probably not. Next year hopefully

By: Don Mills Diva

Don Mills Diva — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:59:12 +0000

I wish you every success in the new year Ali – you are truly an inspiration!

By: Jerri Ann

Jerri Ann — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 02:45:50 +0000

Wow, I sure wish you guys the best, are you going to Blissdom 09?

By: peapodsquadmom

peapodsquadmom — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 02:12:41 +0000

Alli, if I could reach through this computer and give you a giant southern hug I SO WOULD. Having spent every penny of our savings and my cashed-out retirement just to have our family, we were in ridiculously bad financial shape by the time the peapod squad was about 18-months old. We moved in with my parents (saints) for over a year and a half while we slowly dug and dug our way out of debt. We just bought our first house in 2008. It’s much smaller and more modestly done than I dreamed of our first house being…but having experienced the bumpy road that got us here…well, I’m just delighted with what we’ve got! And I’ve learned that my family and faith are much greater treasures than anything money could buy.
I believe God is using your journey in a mighty way to inspire others. And the determination with which you’ve created work-at-home options for yourself is AMAZING. You go, girl!!!

By: Milehimama

Milehimama — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:17:42 +0000

Can I steal your “Mommy Blogger, Respect the Brand” button for my sidebar? It’s too funny!

By: Vanderbilt Wife

Vanderbilt Wife — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 23:32:51 +0000

Alli, I am so there right now. All our nice, neat little plans are falling flat on thier face and I so relate. I think I need to go back and read your blogs from the last year!
Jessie

By: jenniffer

jenniffer — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 23:02:52 +0000

alli- thank you for your honest post… i think we’re all on unsteady ground right now in our world, but i have to remember who is the maker of the path we walk upon. God’s richest blessings in 2009! jh

By: Ali

Ali — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 22:45:58 +0000

Alli, You can’t even imagine how God is using your situation to help and inspire others. We live on a very tight budget, in a tiny condo, in a wonderful neighborhood. We make a lot of sacrifices, and even though I thank God that our needs our met, I struggle with the usual issues of contentment (I want a house, more security, more financial freedom, etc.). Thank you for reminding me that I have a devoted husband, a precious son, a healthy baby growing in my belly, and a lovely community. That is what is important. Thank you, God.